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Hidden Pearls

Pearls
beautiful manifestations of Allah’s design and creation are born
and found in the depths of the ocean within the protection of an
oyster shell. Many divers risk their lives to attain these jewels,
their shine unmarred, hidden away from human touch & sight. They are
lessons in nature for heedful eyes. Have we ever
wondered why pearls, the purest and whitest of natural jewels are
not found floating on the surface of the ocean for all to see? Have
we pondered why all beautiful things are hidden, the pomegranate
seeds in their peel white coconut in a coarse shell, diamonds in a
mine? And the most beautiful Being beyond our imaginations Allah Ta’ala . Among his best creation,
the human being, Allah chose this honour for a woman in order to
preserve, protect and purify her beauty and to make it eternal in
paradise.
However,
in recent years this great honour bestowed on a woman is now being
looked down upon. A symbol of dignity for centuries, it is now being
called a symbol of humiliation and imprisonment . Above everything
else people have gone to the extent of saying that this ordainment
is not there in the Quran.
So let us see what Islam says about veil (Purdah)
A
number of words
have been used in the Quran to explain the dress code and conduct
expected of a Muslim woman. Hijab or “purdah” as we call
it, is not only a covering or outer garb but also the kind of
conduct and intention that should accompany it. Yet the presence of
only a good intention is not sufficient without any action to verify
that intention. You can perhaps vouch about your own purity of
thought (which is also disliked by Allah because no one can claim to
be free from sin) but how can you vouch for the intentions of the
hundreds of men you choose to walk amongst? Intention is important
but not sufficient by itself for repeatedly Allah says: “Those who
believed and performed good actions.” Hence, actions must
accompany intention and in the following ayahs, Allah Ta’ala has
stated certain specific actions that He wishes us to do.
1-
Surah An-Nur: 31 states: “And tell the believing
women to lower their gaze and protect their private parts and not to
show off their adornment except that which is apparent and to draw
their khumur over their juyub and
not to reveal their adornment except to their husband’s fathers,
or their sons or their husband’s sons, or their brothers or their
brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their women, or the
slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack
vigour, or small children who have no sense of feminine sex.”
The
word ‘Khumur’ (plural
of khimar) is used for a head cover in Arabic. Alcohol is
also called khamr because it overcomes or covers up the
senses of a person. Before Islam, women would tuck this head dress
behind their ears and throw its ends over their shoulders to leave
their ears, necks and bosoms uncovered. So it was clearly ordained
here to extend the head dress (or scarf or dupatta) over the
bosoms so they serve their actual purpose of covering a
woman’s attraction.
Then
women are explicitly told about the people before whom they may
reveal their adornment. It is vital to pause here and think, “What
was the need of mentioning every mahram by name if there was
going to be no difference in the woman’s attire before them and
everyone else?”
Not
only the clothes
but even the manner of walking should not be provocative or such
that it draws attention to the women. “And let them not stamp
their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And
all of you beg Allah to forgive you all, O believers, that you may
be successful.” (An-Nur; 31)
We, on the contrary, act against these commands and then
except Allah to forgive us.
Men
and women have both being asked to lower or restrict stray glances,
not because the face is uncovered or covered but also to avoid eye
contact or avoid seeing any haram (unlawful) thing that can open the
door to many vices.
Eyes
are windows to the soul and betray many an emotion; therefore
controlling their unbridled usage was one of the steps to prevent
unlawful relationships. Purdah was another step in the same
direction
We
need to then think about how the shariah (Islamic law), which is
full of wisdom, could command the covering of the head and bosom,
the lowering of certain gazes and a dignified walk but allow the
face to remain uncovered? The face is where the main attraction of a
woman lies. It is on the beautification of her face that the woman
spends thousands of rupees, the face that attracts men and the face
that is used in advertisements to promote many products.
2-In
Surah Al-Ahzab: 53,
it is clearly stated that the wives of the Prophet SAW are not
allowed to remarry and if male strangers have any important thing to
ask for, they should do so from behind a partition. Allah says:
“That is purer for your hearts and for their hearts.” Hence
certain actions are necessary to preserve the purity of the
heart. Allah Ta’ala is our Creator and is closer to us than our
jugular vein. He knows the thoughts that arise in us even before we
can realize them. He knows better what precautions and rules to make
to save humanity from disaster.
In spite of being Mothers of the faithful and
role models for us, the wives of the Prophet SAW have been given
strict rules of conduct and attire. If these pious ladies have been
ordered thus, where should we place ourselves?
3-In
Surah Al-Ahzab: 59,
Allah Ta’ala ordains “O Prophet! Tell your wives and your
daughters and the women of the believers to draw their jilbabs
(cloaks) all over themselves. That will be better, that they should
be known (as free respectable women) so as to not be annoyed. And
Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”
The
word ‘jilbab’
refers to an outer garment to be worn over the khimar and
clothes when going out of the house. Beyond the security of the
house, this dress will hide a Muslim woman’s adornment (face,
body, clothes and jewellery) and also act as a mark of distinction
to prevent any wrong advances. Here, it is not the face that is
meant to be a mark of recognition for any individual because this
meaning would be inconsistent with the context and meaning of the
rest of the ayah. Rather it is this attire
that will help a woman be recognized as a Muslim woman about whom no
evil hopes can be harboured.
To say that this order was for the olden days
when such a need for security existed is a farce because are we
implying that the time of Prophet SAW was worse than the corrupt and
crime-ridden society of today? Are women more secure from threats to
their person and honour today, or are cases of rape and sexual
harassment on the rise in all parts of the world? Has the human
nature changed with time? The answers are clear.
The
word ‘ala’ (upon)
signifies that this cloak must be hung from above a person so as to
cover the face, body and clothes and not hung from the shoulders,
etc. The form and design of the jilbab is not mentioned but rather
left up to the conditions of each country or climate.
The
Quran cannot be completely understood without ahadith and we must
see how the initial and foremost recipients of this Divine Message
acted upon it. We see that the wives of the Prophet SAW and the sahabiat
had no hesitation in covering their faces and bodies when such an
order came from their Lord. Hadhrat Aisha RA relates in
context to the incident of slander against her: “I kept sitting
there and dozed off. Meanwhile a man, Safwan bin Muattal Aslami
came to the place and saw me sleeping. He recognized me immediately
because he had seen me before the commandment for hijab came.
He recited ‘Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raajioon’. So I
woke up and covered my face with my jilbab.” (Bukhari)
Hence,
though the word ‘face’
or ‘naqab’ may not be mentioned in the Quran in context
to hijab, but it is
mentioned in ahadith (like the hadith about not wearing naqab during
Hajj). The test may be
to see who submits to Allah’s commands as well as the
Messenger’s SAW Sunnah.
An
exception to this rule is when a man wishes to see the woman he is
going to marry. This is allowed and recommended and this special
permission shows that it is not possible to see the woman otherwise.
Old
women
who have no desire or produce no desire for marriage in others have
been allowed to shed their outer clothes, which proves that the
wearing of jilbab is necessary for young, marriageable women.
Even for the old, Allah says, “But to refrain (not to discard
their outer clothing) is better for them.”
(An-Nur: 60)
As
far as leaving the face uncovered during Hajj (or namaz) is
concerned, this is not necessarily applicable for the rest of our
life too. Acts of worship have special requirements that are not
practiced otherwise. We do not wear the ihram (2 sheets of cloth) in
our daily life, nor do we observe the various restrictions of ihram
except on the occasion of Hajj, we do not abstain from food or
intercourse everyday from dawn till dusk like we do in Ramadan. So
how can we make an exceptional act like uncovering the face a rule
for the rest of our life?
On
the other hand the command to abstain from using naqab (sewn
cloth for covering face) during Hajj proves the fact that it is
necessary otherwise or there would have been no need to stop women
from wearing it on Hajj. Infact it is not forbidden to cover the
face with an unsewn cloth for women on Hajj. Hadhrat Aisha
narrates, “Men on camels used to pass by us while we were with the
Prophet SAW and in the state of ihram. We would cover our
faces with our jilbabs when they passed by us and then
uncover them again.” (Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah)
This
attire is not a hindrance
but rather a blessing for the Muslim woman. If an entire nation can
go around wearing masks to save themselves from catching the SARS
disease, why can’t Muslim women do so to save themselves from
other kinds of social ills? If a surgeon can perform the most
delicate of tasks covered from head to toe, wearing a mask, why must
a Muslim woman’s sight, hearing or breathing be obstructed by a
cloth? Hijab is not a means of blackening the faces of women and
reducing them to mere objects! Rather it is the culture of obscenity
that is making women mere objects of attraction and a feast for the
eyes.
Does
keeping a pearl
within a cover or a diamond in a safe place decrease its worth?
Rather it increases it. It is when the woman’s outer appearance is
hidden from public display that her inner qualities of intellect,
wisdom and knowledge shine through.
Whenever
the women of Jannah are mentioned in the Quran, their quality of
being hidden and preserved is also mentioned which further enhances
their beauty. They have been called Azwajun Mutahharatun
(purified wives) and Lulu-el-Maknoon (Pearls kept hidden).
Allah Ta’ala says: “And beside them will be Qasirat-at-Tarf
(ones with lowered, restrained eyes) with wide and beautiful eyes.
(Delicate and pure) as if they were (hidden) eggs (well)
preserved.” (As-Saffat: 48-49)
If
we desire to be amongst these women in the gardens of Paradise, we
will have to develop these qualities within ourselves from this
world onwards to become one of the
Hidden Pearls.
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